Prenatal Ping Pong, A Hospital Tour & Kelly Mines Comedy Gold : Episode 16

In Episode 16 of "Gray Hair & Daycare: Gen X Dad, Gen Beta Baby," Frank and Carlo dive into some serious topics! We're talking George Jetson's real birthday (spoiler: he's older than you think! ), celebrity rants from billionaires who "can't do anything", and the challenges of teaching common sense in a chaotic world. Plus, Frank shares a heartwarming (and slightly gross) baby kick story! Don't miss this one – it's packed with laughs and definitely some controversial opinions!
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Chapter Markers:
0:00 - Celebrity Opinions: Shut Up and Sing!
1:58 - Baby Josie Update: Brains & Amniotic Fluid!
4:35 - British TV & Accents (Lou Hates Them?!)
7:00 - Still a Coconut, But Growing!
7:52 - First Baby Kick: A Dad's Emotional Moment
9:44 - Silver Fox Mailbox: George Jetson's Birthday!
13:27 - Flying Cars: When Will They Land?
15:41 - Listener Shout-Outs & Egg Rolls!
19:59 - Frank Around and Find Out: Our New Segment!
21:31 - Billionaire Tears & Immigration Rants
38:38 - What Just Happened: Wegmans Wins & Childbirth Videos
41:00 - Preeclampsia & Hospital Tour Prep
45:16 - Baby Laundry & Spreadsheet Dad!
50:09 - The Joys of Being a Stay-at-Home Dad
53:13 - Pregnancy Cravings & Food Philosophy
57:17 - Nursery Design "Hacks" & Comedy Gold
1:00:10 - Dogs & Baby: The Introduction
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I am fascinated by, and I think with the last election, I hoped there would be a realization on the part of some of these celebrities that they all came out, they all endorsed one candidate, they threw a billion dollars behind them, and basically the majority of the country gave them a big middle finger and said, no thanks.
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Maybe they should just shut up and stop, just make make your funny shows, sing your song, little songs, get rich, more power to you, but keep your opinions on stuff like this.
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Just, just keep it to yourself.
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This is the gray hair and daycare podcast with a combined age of 111 years and a combined IQ right in that same range.
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Your hosts, Frank Sirio and Carlo Russo.
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Welcome back.
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Here we are yet again.
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It feels like it was just four days ago.
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It's weird how that happened, but it wasn't, it was a little while ago.
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So we are back for episode 16, 16, 5, 5, 5, and 1.
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16 is it?
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Uh, yeah.
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16.
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Wow.
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Yeah.
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We're just flying through these.
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Almost to 20.
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Almost 20.
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But I don't know what that, why that is important.
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We're going to have a cake.
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We're starting with food again.
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Maybe 20 is when we have a different scenery, a table in front of us.
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You know, I've been discussing, I've been discussing different possibilities with our executive producers and thinking about other possibilities.
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We've got some things in the works, in the works.
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I like it.
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Okay.
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You're just trying to get your coffee machine in part of the, you just want to buy something.
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Yeah, no, no.
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Trust me.
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I have to buy a lot of things.
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It's already happening, but anyway, as always, I am Frank Sirio.
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I am 55 years old and my wife is 33 weeks pregnant.
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So we are six weeks away from induction and hopefully the arrival of her beautiful baby Josie.
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So, but where we are right now importantly is at 33 weeks, her brain and nervous systems are fully developed.
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Fully.
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It all works.
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She is drinking up to a pint of amniotic fluid per day.
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I had no idea that was what was happening.
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I guess you need to drink that.
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And that's what's, that's her intestinal tract for, I'm assuming lasagna at some point in the future for ZD and meatballs.
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Yes.
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A little chicken parm.
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That's exactly what they say.
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So that goes through half a pound, half a, half a pint of amniotic fluid a day and gaining, gaining about a half a pound per week.
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So the longer they cook the last way in, she was already for four and a half pounds.
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They're estimated with all the measurements.
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So that's where we are.
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It's exciting.
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Now here's, here's the problem.
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What produce?
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Here's the problem.
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Oh, that was leading.
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Okay.
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I, uh, this one, it's still says a coconut.
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So I'm not sure because they keep saying she's growing bigger.
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I do use more than one like reference.
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There's tons of websites that do this.
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The one I tend to use a lot is the NHS.
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The British national health system website is really good when it comes to that stuff.
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So Franken is Britain.
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I like the UK.
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You should be British.
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Well, it would be fun.
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Oh, well, honestly, Kelly is a very, is loves.
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She like, she loves, this is one of the things I tease her about.
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She watches these old and I mean old.
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She, and she loves them.
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Old television series from the BBC.
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Like there's one, I don't remember what it is, but it's like Judi Dench when she was 30, right?
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Like she's a hundred and she loves it.
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It was like some kind of a situation comedy.
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You guys are a perfect match because you always watched English.
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You fancy a good pub and no, you love that whole English.
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We were just talking the other day about toast to London.
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We watched, you know, I like a lot of it.
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I don't really enjoy a lot of her choices like that because she also will watch like there's some, there's a show called, have you ever heard of the father Brown mysteries?
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Nope.
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So it's like murder.
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She wrote, but Angela Lansbury is a, is a British Vicar in this small town and it's just like, I couldn't, she made, she had me watch one and I couldn't do it.
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Have you asked her how she got into it?
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Was her family watching or mother, father?
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She had a very, so her mom really kept them limited.
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Gotcha.
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They didn't get to, they no exposure to the U S any of the seriously.
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Like most of the TV, because she grew up in Buffalo, most of the TV they watched was like Canadian TV and mostly like public broadcasting.
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Like, no, like there's still things that I'll be like, how do you not know about, you know, whatever it is.
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Well, it's like in my, in my parents' home, you literally have to have like a passport to go in there.
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You go into another country, the TV is in a different language.
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No one's speaking English.
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There's a goat in the, in the kitchen, you know, there's a garden outside.
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It's like, where am I?
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Like what's going on?
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There's no English at all.
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It is a different culture, different culture.
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You know, the songs are in Italian.
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So that's funny.
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Yeah.
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No, it's just, yeah.
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But somehow or another, we do have in many ways, similar, similar taste when it comes to that stuff, which is good.
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Yeah.
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But yeah.
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And I don't mind, I don't mind a lot of the British.
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I like British humor.
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It's British humor.
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Yes, I do.
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I, yes, I like that.
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We have a friend that hates British accents on women.
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Remember that?
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No.
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Oh yeah.
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Who?
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Oh, I'll tell you after.
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Someone.
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You tell me after.
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Let's try and get out of them, ladies and gentlemen.
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Okay.
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It's our friend Lou.
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Lou doesn't like British accents.
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No, he doesn't like the girl with British accents.
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Why?
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Like what?
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It's so sexy.
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Yeah.
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Everybody, like women love it.
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Now Australia, I can understand.
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I love Australia.
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A lot of fans in Australia.
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And that's a similar accent.
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Very similar, but it's different.
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He does not, that's interesting.
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I don't remember that about Lou.
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Yeah.
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Of all the things to remember about him.
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I believe that was one of his, I don't look back.
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It could be.
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It could be.
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There you go.
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Baby Josie is still a coconut.
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Still a coconut, but a fully developed nervous system and brain.
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Now is the floating plates, the skull.
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Oh no, that's still, that goes, I think almost to a year.
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Cause you can't mess around with that one.
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Right?
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Yeah.
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It's don't.
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Yeah.
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It's very soft.
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Well, we talked about it a couple episodes about the helmets.
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Yes.
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And then just recently talked about, we had a silver Fox mailbox entry about them and how they're expensive.
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Yes, yes.
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A couple of weeks ago.
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And then I got a picture sent to me from my sister in Texas.
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Her granddaughter had one of those and it was like custom and it said her name on it.
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It was very cute.
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Do you think if we paid for, of course we can have our own custom helmets and put our logo on it for our size heads, would they make it sponsored by, yes, I'll tell you, here's what I'll say.
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I don't know what the, if little Josie requires one, I hope I will have it put on, but I don't know.
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Well, you never know.
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Who knows?
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I don't want, she's not getting more active, but I have experienced, this was actually really cool.
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One morning we're getting up still in bed and I had my hand on Kelly's belly and I always try to like really give us more like palm the basketball.
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So hoping that I'm going to feel that I'm going to feel something.
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Yeah.
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So I feel a put right on my thumb and I thought, oh, and I said, I pushed back and just like clockwork, boom, boom, push back.
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I got to like literally four times back and forth, pushing back, pushing back.
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But it was, it's, that was so awesome.
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I was so excited.
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I was so excited.
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I even got choked up.
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Like I said, a couple of weeks ago, I think it's the same.
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Like they're right there.
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They're there in the room with you, but they're not.
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Yeah.
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You know what I mean?
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It's like, I can feel you kind of, it's, oh.
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It was, it was real.
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I was so excited.
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I'm thinking, and in those moments, especially this being the first time you think that out of the millions of people, this has only happened to me.
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And I go get, I went to get a haircut and my, the girl who cuts my hair, she's got my hair for years, Danielle.
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I'm telling her about it.
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She's like, I used to play games.
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Her older children, she would have them play games with, with the one in the inner belly.
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And I'm like, okay, yeah, it was like that.
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It made me feel a little less special, but it was a cute story.
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So that was a, that was very exciting.
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Have you seen the foot or a hand?
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No, because even with the extra weight and everything, Kelly is still usually under multiple layers.
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So I don't get that.
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That was very, that was very exciting.
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That was fun.
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So as we often do, we're going to start off with the silver Fox mailbox.
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So this time we have, so from a YouTube viewer, YouTube, welcome YouTube.
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Thank you for watching.
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And I'm going to try to get this one right because his name is delusional fishermen are thrifty.
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That is his name.
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So delusional fishermen are thrifty on YouTube saw one of our shorts where we talked about George Jetson's birthday.
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And he was nice enough to inform us that in fact, the Jetsons was set in the year 2062.
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So he was 40 years old at the time of the cartoon born in 2022.
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And the cartoon famously of the sixties was set in 2062.
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So he's 62.
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Now we were, we were mentioning, oh, we can get to that point.
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Now I know we have, well, you think about 2062, we were born in 68 and 69.
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So we, you, you'd have to make it to 90 in well into your nineties, but we've had some of our last generation that made it to their nineties that creeped up there.
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Yeah, we can do it.
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But we could be, he would be 40 at that time.
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Maybe he could visit us in the home.
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All I want to know is when I replied to his comment, I said, so what you're telling me is if I make it to 95, I can get a flying car and a robot and I'm going to go for that.
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So that's incentive enough.
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Okay.
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Well, the other thing I thought about realistically was George is kind of the right age for a little Josie, right?
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Three years older, right?
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Oh, you mean now?
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Yeah.
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She could, she could be Jane Jetson.
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Oh my God.
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That's right.
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Josie Jetson.
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It could work.
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I love that idea.
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It could work.
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Absolutely.
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We got to get these kids together.
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We got to find a date.
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So wait a minute.
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Now I'm going to really dive into this.
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Yes.
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Okay.
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So the jet, he grew up now.
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He has no, he's seen so much.
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Think of the grown up.
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Yeah.
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Three years ago he was born.
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Yep.
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He was, he was three years old this year.
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He was born in 2022, 2022.
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So he's, he's going to see a lot of change, right?
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A lot from what that cartoon had.
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Yeah.
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Flying, floating cities, buildings, little spaces.
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All, all is going to change really.
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And what do you think about for us when we were 18, what it was like back then and now?
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Yeah.
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But when we were 18, there was still planes and now there's still planes.
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There's still no flying cars.
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If there are their drones, I guess I'm going to get a drone now.
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Different things happened.
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Not the flying car thing, which is disappointing.
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I always thought that would happen.
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You know, right now I'm 56 years old.
250
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You want a flying car?
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There's no, um, I don't know.
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It just, it's just, I'm disappointed.
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So they're saying in 40 years, a lot of things are going to just, some of the things in the Jetsons we have now the FaceTime.
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Yeah.
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That's they did.
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They did.
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Well, I knew the FaceTime thing was crazy when I was watching it with Michael J.
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Fox on, um, back to the future, back to the future too.
259
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That's right.
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When he was talking to, who was he talking to?
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I thought it was his boss or father who played his boss.
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Oh, I don't remember from the red hot chili peppers.
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Oh my God.
264
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It was flea.
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That was flea.
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Yes.
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That's it.
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Thank you.
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Yes.
270
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He was talking to flea and I thought, Oh my God, are we going to get to this point where we're going to be able to see the person we're calling and now it's not, that's like, shut up.
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That's another thing.
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Nobody talks to each other.
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Well, maybe we'll be flying.
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We could.
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When do you think flying cars are if they're ever going to come out?
276
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When, when, when put you on the spot?
277
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Not for at least another 15 or 20 years.
278
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Okay.
279
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That makes sense.
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Where do they have it now?
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They do.
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They have the little, little ones.
283
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I don't know if they'll ever be mass produced.
284
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Will it be, will it be based on like what drones are?
285
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Yes.
286
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That's exactly what it is.
287
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It's enclosed.
288
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Yeah.
289
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It's enclosed drone.
290
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Yeah.
291
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Kind of.
292
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That's it.
293
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A couple of months ago we had the Jersey, uh, are they just flying cars?
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No one.
295
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Or were they the Jetsons?
296
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No one knows, but you know, the government knows and they're just not saying anything about it.
297
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Could it be, could it be a car company that is going through the testing of their flying cars?
298
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I would think they would have a better test area than the Jersey.
299
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Like something, they would be a little bit more cagey.
300
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Have you ever seen the cars when they're testing a new, like the really high end, like supercars and stuff, they will put like weird patterns all over the car when they test them.
301
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So people can't get pictures and understand what they look like.
302
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If they're doing that, the drone people would probably flying car.
303
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People would probably do better than the Jersey shore.
304
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They would probably use something else.
305
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I'm just saying it's easy to do that.
306
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And people go, well, it can't be that.
307
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Cause it would be better than the Jersey shore.
308
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It's like reverse psychology kind of thing.
309
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We're going to put in everybody could be, could be, they said there were sizes of cars.
310
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Yep.
311
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Yeah.
312
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Those are the things that, and then it just disappears from the news.
313
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It's all gone.
314
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Yep.
315
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I know we're going back in time now.
316
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Cause we're talking months ago.
317
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It wasn't that long.
318
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It was a few weeks ago.
319
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You know, yeah.
320
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Stuff like that.
321
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I'm going to, I'm going to stick to my guns.
322
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I believe it was, it was Ford, Ford aerospace space car testing their new, their new, what we said enclosed, enclosed, something like that.
323
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But then, but I still, I look at that and look at the technology that's in cars now and how it helps people who still can't drive.
324
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What are they going to do in the sky?
325
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Like that's a frightening concept.
326
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Well, Tesla drives itself.
327
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These things are flying.
328
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Yeah.
329
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Put him where you're going.
330
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Let's hope maybe that's what they're, maybe that's the evolution that they're going for.
331
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I know who's going to know who's well, Josie, Josie, Josie will know she made design.
332
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And then we got also a note on YouTube from Tom UW 20 K.
333
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Okay.
334
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He, he enjoyed my analogy of crying like a baby.
335
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That's been hit with a hammer.
336
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I did admit it's funny.
337
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It's that is a Simpsons thing that was on the Simpsons many, many, many years ago.
338
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I think not steal jokes.
339
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I feel bad, but I'm going to come clean and say, I'm pretty sure.
340
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Although I have said it many times since then, but he, and he actually said, he said something that if I, this is a person, as soon as I saw the comment, I realized who it was.
341
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This is somebody who I worked with many years ago.
342
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Tom worked, Tom worked with me at circuit city in new Hartford, New York many, many years ago.
343
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And he said that as soon as he heard that comment, it, it reminded him of the things I used to say when we worked together.
344
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And he said, he still uses some of my stuff to this day.
345
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I thought that was nice.
346
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You do come up with some funny stuff that you say to yeah, I do.
347
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I say things I probably shouldn't say that.
348
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I'm just saying they're funny.
349
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My employees say that they're fun.
350
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They're like, you shouldn't say these things.
351
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I used to love being in the office and you would pick on someone.
352
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I would just sit there and make a coffee.
353
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Yep.
354
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And it was all fun.
355
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Everybody we all, we're all friends, obviously.
356
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So it wasn't that you, I don't think you pick on somebody that can't handle it.
357
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No, I like it.
358
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Like I like to, I like John, one ball, John, the, it's just the other day we're on a conference call.
359
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You guys all remember John.
360
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Remember John Taylor, his three part interview, John was recounting to me a story.
361
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I had called him for a workload related matter.
362
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And he said, look, I just have to let you know this.
363
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Now John's 44, I think 44, 45.
364
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And he says, I just had an egg roll for the first time.
365
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Oh God.
366
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And I'm like, did, did you like it?
367
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And he said, it changed my life.
368
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Like he was, he just, but he's 44 years old.
369
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He's never had an egg roll.
370
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And he has a lot of things.
371
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Like, I don't think he had a salad until he was 40, all that stuff.
372
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So I'm like, well, you know, that orange stuff that they give you.
373
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He's like, yes, I throw it away.
374
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I'm like, try it with that.
375
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The duck sauce.
376
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No, that'll change your life again.
377
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If he had never had an egg roll, I'm like, try the orange stuff.
378
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I understand being picky, but you know what that is, is because your parents and my parents, if they put a salad in front of us, that's right.
379
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The answer was never, or you don't get to eat.
380
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You don't have a box of donuts for John.
381
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It was, well, what would you like?
382
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Right.
383
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This is why I have such a difficult time managing John.
384
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This is the man that told us him and his two other roommates when Krispy Kreme is not a sponsor.
385
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They bought 24 cases and just ate a case a night sitting there each until it went away.
386
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I couldn't even have the numbers wrong.
387
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It could even be more.
388
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John, if you'd correct me, please.
389
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But yeah.
390
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So when he told me I never had a salad, I wasn't surprised.
391
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No.
392
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Yeah.
393
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But it was interesting.
394
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He probably has never had soup.
395
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Maybe not.
396
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So I mentioned that.
397
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And then like on the next conference call, I'm like, did he, and he's like, I tried it.
398
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It was great.
399
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Like, so now, so he's, we've now expanded John's diet, but I like to have, you know, I like to hear about my employees and Tom used to work with them.
400
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Tom.
401
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Yeah.
402
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He's a listener.
403
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He is.
404
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He's down.
405
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And I think, I think he's in North Carolina now.
406
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He has moved on.
407
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He's doing big, bigger and much better things than what we used to do.
408
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So that is our silver Fox mailbox for this time.
409
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And we're going to move on to a segment.
410
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I would just went over before we started recording with Carlo, the possible names for this segment, because we've been talking about doing a segment where, where I talk maybe more about some current events or things that are happening in the news and things like that.
411
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This is a new segment.
412
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We are trying out.
413
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We're trying it out now.
414
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And we have our favorite name.
415
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Yeah, we do.
416
00:20:05,130 --> 00:20:09,730
But, but I'm willing to, as we have in the past, put it out to the viewers.
417
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We have another contest.
418
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Here's another contest.
419
00:20:12,710 --> 00:20:14,990
So these are the potential names for the segment.
420
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So the first, the first one is I'm warning you.
421
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That is good.
422
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It's a little, it's a little, maybe a little intense.
423
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So option one, I'm warning you option to just leave me alone.
424
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Okay.
425
00:20:31,730 --> 00:20:33,990
Or my personal favorite.
426
00:20:34,030 --> 00:20:37,950
And I think Carlos as well, Frank around and find out.
427
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I like Frank around and find out.
428
00:20:42,910 --> 00:20:46,450
So it's that, and I'm warning you.
429
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I'm warning you.
430
00:20:47,710 --> 00:20:47,910
Yeah.
431
00:20:48,150 --> 00:20:48,950
Close second.
432
00:20:49,150 --> 00:20:49,370
Yeah.
433
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Or could you combine the first two?
434
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I'm warning you.
435
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Leave me alone.
436
00:20:53,710 --> 00:20:54,830
I'm warning you.
437
00:20:54,890 --> 00:20:55,870
I'm warning you.
438
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Frank around and find out.
439
00:20:58,970 --> 00:21:03,870
So what I wanted to talk about this time is, and this was just amazing to me.
440
00:21:04,450 --> 00:21:09,450
Our new president has kind of started to deliver on many of his campaign promises.
441
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One of the major ones within minutes.
442
00:21:14,170 --> 00:21:23,570
And one of them has been to act on a lot of the illegal immigration that has happened and begin a very systematic deportation process.
443
00:21:23,870 --> 00:21:31,490
And they kind of approached it, which I think was a smart thing to do with a worst first approach.
444
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Go find the street.
445
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Yes.
446
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Go find the gang members.
447
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Yes.
448
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The people who are committing crimes who disagrees with that.
449
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Think about, but why would you disagree with taking harmful people off the streets?
450
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You would think everyone would applaud, but no.
451
00:21:47,890 --> 00:21:57,970
So, but no, the example that struck me was a video appeared on, on X, I believe, and it has already been pulled down and a reaction.
452
00:21:58,250 --> 00:22:04,370
And that one has been pulled down to from Selena Gomez, Selena Gomez.
453
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Now she's, I know she started off as a Disney kid.
454
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Oh, the, Oh, the witch person.
455
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She's a witch.
456
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She had a witch store show.
457
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Oh, which is of Waverly place her.
458
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And then she's saying, and then she, and didn't, didn't she date Justin Bieber?
459
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He, she broke his heart.
460
00:22:21,970 --> 00:22:22,630
Okay.
461
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She is now.
462
00:22:26,110 --> 00:22:31,850
I know her mostly from her complete inability to act in a, in a show.
463
00:22:31,910 --> 00:22:34,910
That's really good called only murders in the building.
464
00:22:35,270 --> 00:22:37,770
So this show it's fantastic.
465
00:22:37,910 --> 00:22:42,370
It starts Steve Martin and it was, it was written by Steve Martin and Martin short.
466
00:22:42,810 --> 00:22:45,510
And she is like the third leg of the stool.
467
00:22:45,630 --> 00:22:47,910
I don't, I haven't seen it, but I know what you're talking about.
468
00:22:48,030 --> 00:22:48,770
It's a few seasons.
469
00:22:49,830 --> 00:22:50,930
It's a great show.
470
00:22:51,030 --> 00:22:51,310
Okay.
471
00:22:51,470 --> 00:22:54,690
And the whole first season, I would complain to Kelly as we watched it.
472
00:22:54,950 --> 00:22:59,890
She has the acting range of a salad fork, right?
473
00:22:59,910 --> 00:23:01,750
Like there's, there's another break.
474
00:23:01,890 --> 00:23:04,050
Just it is, she's horrible.
475
00:23:04,630 --> 00:23:10,850
So I just thought when they, when she was cast in that, like why her right now, but she's, she's popular.
476
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So they'll take it.
477
00:23:12,150 --> 00:23:25,810
They're bringing the old people like us with, with Steve Martin and they're trying to, they're trying to attract but you think there's so many other great options, young people who can act, but they picked her.
478
00:23:25,910 --> 00:23:26,410
Whatever.
479
00:23:26,590 --> 00:23:32,030
So she posts this video on X crying, sobbing into the camera.
480
00:23:32,450 --> 00:23:32,870
Nope.
481
00:23:32,870 --> 00:23:33,370
No.
482
00:23:34,030 --> 00:23:39,910
My people are being deported and I don't know what to do.
483
00:23:40,670 --> 00:23:44,270
And the children and I'm so sorry.
484
00:23:44,390 --> 00:23:51,850
Now, first of all, I was surprised because I didn't think she was capable of emoting at that level in any way, shape or form best acting.
485
00:23:52,690 --> 00:23:53,210
Absolutely.
486
00:23:53,210 --> 00:23:55,070
The most engaging I've ever seen her.
487
00:23:55,530 --> 00:23:56,050
Right.
488
00:23:56,250 --> 00:24:00,730
And she's just really look genuinely in a moment, I feel bad.
489
00:24:00,770 --> 00:24:04,270
I'm like, this person clearly is experiencing real emotions.
490
00:24:04,650 --> 00:24:07,430
If not complete stupidity, right?
491
00:24:08,090 --> 00:24:08,530
Right.
492
00:24:08,850 --> 00:24:14,070
No, I know that she can't, this is true in her mind because she can't act.
493
00:24:14,090 --> 00:24:20,130
So I know she really is sad, but, and she's seeing, she's seeing things like there's nothing I can do.
494
00:24:20,130 --> 00:24:24,190
And I feel like, and I'm, and just a couple of weeks ago I was reading an article.
495
00:24:24,830 --> 00:24:29,570
What do you think the Selena Gomez's net worth is?
496
00:24:30,070 --> 00:24:30,410
Oh God.
497
00:24:31,210 --> 00:24:33,350
This, this was, I couldn't believe it.
498
00:24:33,390 --> 00:24:34,470
How much you spent this week?
499
00:24:34,630 --> 00:24:36,110
I'm going to play a million.
500
00:24:36,310 --> 00:24:38,690
I'm assuming she was a Disney kid.
501
00:24:38,750 --> 00:24:39,750
She had a TV series.
502
00:24:39,870 --> 00:24:44,850
She has a recording career, $20 million, $20, 50, a hundred million.
503
00:24:45,490 --> 00:24:45,650
Yeah.
504
00:24:45,650 --> 00:24:45,750
Yeah.
505
00:24:46,190 --> 00:24:51,690
She is a billionaire with a B a billionaire Selena Gomez.
506
00:24:51,730 --> 00:24:52,890
Selena Gomez is a billionaire.
507
00:24:52,890 --> 00:24:54,770
Now I could buy all her people.
508
00:24:54,910 --> 00:25:01,690
As soon as I saw, I, as soon as I saw that, I thought, how she hasn't been in gigantic movies.
509
00:25:01,930 --> 00:25:05,270
She hasn't had a huge record deal or no.
510
00:25:05,350 --> 00:25:09,050
So I'm like, okay, how do you guess how restaurant?
511
00:25:09,730 --> 00:25:13,210
No, no, not a restaurant.
512
00:25:14,130 --> 00:25:17,270
She bought a, Oh, she bought a team, a sports team.
513
00:25:17,330 --> 00:25:17,870
She became a billionaire.
514
00:25:18,030 --> 00:25:20,030
She did not need to be a billionaire to buy a team.
515
00:25:20,030 --> 00:25:20,410
Yes.
516
00:25:20,490 --> 00:25:20,650
How?
517
00:25:20,830 --> 00:25:21,570
I don't, I have no idea.
518
00:25:22,290 --> 00:25:22,690
Cosmetics.
519
00:25:23,370 --> 00:25:23,590
What?
520
00:25:24,590 --> 00:25:31,030
Again, I, somehow this came up when I talked about, this is the second time talking about the, the, the girl who cuts my hair, Danielle.
521
00:25:31,750 --> 00:25:38,190
And I mentioned, cause I back when I got my haircut, I had just learned that she was a billionaire and I'm like, how was that positive?
522
00:25:38,270 --> 00:25:42,090
She's like, she and her daughters all use her products.
523
00:25:42,410 --> 00:25:47,510
So she, she has endorsed a line of cosmetics now.
524
00:25:47,590 --> 00:25:53,750
And I, you could see just by looking at her that she's in a lab and probably came up with some more like fantastic mascara.
525
00:25:54,330 --> 00:25:55,850
Like I heard she was a scientist.
526
00:25:55,950 --> 00:25:56,650
Yes, absolutely.
527
00:25:56,830 --> 00:26:01,990
She's certainly the one cooking up the new foundation that she's selling.
528
00:26:02,330 --> 00:26:03,710
Now we know why she's on the show.
529
00:26:04,290 --> 00:26:06,210
Her name is huge.
530
00:26:06,450 --> 00:26:07,390
She's a billionaire.
531
00:26:08,090 --> 00:26:10,970
She's richer than the two legends that are on the show.
532
00:26:11,090 --> 00:26:11,470
She is.
533
00:26:11,690 --> 00:26:14,670
And that, that is amazing when you think about it.
534
00:26:14,670 --> 00:26:19,730
So now rewind to watching this video of her sobbing and how she feels so helpless.
535
00:26:20,110 --> 00:26:21,590
You are a billionaire.
536
00:26:21,990 --> 00:26:27,450
You can literally change the world with that kind of money.
537
00:26:28,070 --> 00:26:28,590
Absolutely.
538
00:26:29,630 --> 00:26:29,730
A billionaire.
539
00:26:29,970 --> 00:26:37,670
And you have the gall to get on X and cry for what purpose?
540
00:26:37,670 --> 00:26:40,330
Cry and say, and I can't do anything about it.
541
00:26:40,350 --> 00:26:41,170
There's nothing I can do about it.
542
00:26:41,210 --> 00:26:43,570
A billionaire that says I can't do anything about it.
543
00:26:43,570 --> 00:26:47,310
So I'm asking you guys that are living week to week.
544
00:26:47,370 --> 00:26:49,390
Can you do something about it?
545
00:26:49,490 --> 00:26:52,270
When you think about it, Catholic Charities, you think about Catholic Charities.
546
00:26:52,770 --> 00:26:55,750
Now this is a whole other subject that maybe I'll talk about another time.
547
00:26:56,070 --> 00:27:06,010
Catholic Charities is one of the non-governmental organizations that the federal government and state governments funnel money into to take care of social programs, right?
548
00:27:06,250 --> 00:27:13,490
Catholic Charities is heavily involved in taking care of refugees and they are slightly in some ways embroiled in some of this immigration stuff.
549
00:27:13,730 --> 00:27:21,750
She could literally triple their funding with the stroke of a pen and you can't do anything.
550
00:27:21,890 --> 00:27:24,670
But no, but she's going to cry and do a video.
551
00:27:24,890 --> 00:27:26,530
That's what I am.
552
00:27:26,590 --> 00:27:34,230
I'm so sick of my people, says a billionaire, what they're doing to my people, my people.
553
00:27:34,350 --> 00:27:36,070
What are you doing to your people?
554
00:27:36,490 --> 00:27:37,510
Not doing a whole lot for them.
555
00:27:37,810 --> 00:27:50,730
I am fascinated by, and I think with the last election, I hoped there would be a realization on the part of some of these celebrities that they all came out, they all endorsed one candidate.
556
00:27:51,210 --> 00:27:59,630
They threw a billion dollars behind them and basically the majority of the country gave them a big middle finger and said, no thanks.
557
00:28:00,050 --> 00:28:03,730
Maybe they should shut up and stop.
558
00:28:03,890 --> 00:28:13,230
Just make your funny shows, sing your song, little songs, get rich, more power to you, but keep your opinions on stuff like this.
559
00:28:13,330 --> 00:28:16,110
Just keep it to yourself.
560
00:28:16,130 --> 00:28:19,990
Not only did she put it out, but you said she had to take it down.
561
00:28:20,230 --> 00:28:24,290
And this is the kind of entertaining from my perspective.
562
00:28:24,610 --> 00:28:31,330
She puts the video out and there is an onslaught of people who are just like, are you kidding?
563
00:28:31,470 --> 00:28:34,010
Like they're just, they just start cutting her down.
564
00:28:34,150 --> 00:28:38,030
So she pulls it down that she puts up a comment.
565
00:28:38,310 --> 00:28:44,450
She puts up a post saying, I guess people like me can't have, and they pile on that one.
566
00:28:44,450 --> 00:28:46,550
Like, and then she pulls that down.
567
00:28:46,730 --> 00:28:49,650
And then today, since it was a couple of days ago, she did it.
568
00:28:49,690 --> 00:28:52,570
I see a post from Don Lemon.
569
00:28:52,670 --> 00:28:55,550
Oh, I know that lemonade.
570
00:28:55,690 --> 00:29:03,390
Oh, uh, Don Lemon saying that basically it was a bunch of mega people that pounced on Selena Gomez.
571
00:29:03,530 --> 00:29:05,070
It wouldn't be their people.
572
00:29:05,190 --> 00:29:06,610
And it's like, really?
573
00:29:06,730 --> 00:29:09,730
You think my mega people are following Selena Gomez?
574
00:29:10,010 --> 00:29:10,870
Come on.
575
00:29:10,990 --> 00:29:11,870
No, no.
576
00:29:11,930 --> 00:29:17,410
It's because those, that whole, that whole society is eating itself now.
577
00:29:17,450 --> 00:29:17,770
Right.
578
00:29:17,990 --> 00:29:18,310
Right.
579
00:29:18,670 --> 00:29:19,890
And that's what happened.
580
00:29:19,890 --> 00:29:27,990
The only way to climb a farther up the pile of shit is to attack whoever's higher on the pile of shit.
581
00:29:28,110 --> 00:29:29,950
And they put out shit like that.
582
00:29:30,070 --> 00:29:30,670
Go effect change.
583
00:29:30,670 --> 00:29:31,610
Oh, I'm billionaire.
584
00:29:32,350 --> 00:29:34,750
Literally saying my hands are tied.
585
00:29:34,890 --> 00:29:40,770
But I was, I was really, uh, I was put off by, I was put off by that.
586
00:29:40,870 --> 00:29:44,990
And it did make me think I kind of want to, cause there's a lot of stuff now.
587
00:29:44,990 --> 00:29:45,790
It crapped.
588
00:29:45,870 --> 00:29:47,230
It has cropped up online.
589
00:29:48,230 --> 00:29:53,350
People just now we're in the mode of, we're going to point out everything that we think he's doing wrong.
590
00:29:53,350 --> 00:29:53,770
Right.
591
00:29:53,930 --> 00:30:00,290
Even though the vast majority of Americans I think are pleased because they elected him on these issues.
592
00:30:00,290 --> 00:30:00,610
Right.
593
00:30:01,090 --> 00:30:05,210
And they, they keep coming back to pointing out all this stuff.
594
00:30:05,350 --> 00:30:12,530
And I just want to, I, I want to like think through a, of a form that I want them to check off.
595
00:30:12,570 --> 00:30:17,650
Like before you post online to complain about something, number one, who got hurt?
596
00:30:17,770 --> 00:30:19,170
And is it an American citizen?
597
00:30:19,370 --> 00:30:19,590
Right.
598
00:30:19,810 --> 00:30:20,850
There should be a checklist.
599
00:30:21,050 --> 00:30:21,430
Right.
600
00:30:21,790 --> 00:30:23,490
Is this affecting who's it affecting?
601
00:30:23,710 --> 00:30:26,590
Number two, has it already happened yet?
602
00:30:26,590 --> 00:30:28,930
Or are you just worried about what might happen?
603
00:30:28,970 --> 00:30:34,050
Cause that most of what's happening right now is, Oh my God, he eliminated 17 attorneys general.
604
00:30:34,210 --> 00:30:35,810
How many attorneys general are there?
605
00:30:36,010 --> 00:30:36,650
I don't know.
606
00:30:36,890 --> 00:30:37,970
And I bet you don't know either.
607
00:30:38,050 --> 00:30:44,430
And either to the people who are complaining, who knows how many there were 398, there could be a bunch, but the fact that, but that's it.
608
00:30:44,450 --> 00:30:55,610
But Oh my God, now this is going to be like never even thought about it before that rampant rampant absolute government corruption because of that complain about the things that are happening right now.
609
00:30:56,030 --> 00:31:02,610
But you don't have to agree with every single thing someone does.
610
00:31:02,810 --> 00:31:03,310
Yep.
611
00:31:03,610 --> 00:31:03,810
Right.
612
00:31:04,110 --> 00:31:04,990
To respect them.
613
00:31:05,130 --> 00:31:05,430
Absolutely.
614
00:31:05,730 --> 00:31:05,850
Right.
615
00:31:06,050 --> 00:31:17,490
If you went down the list of every president we've had, I'm sure there's going to be things that we liked about it and things that we didn't on the democratic side, on the Republican side, it doesn't matter.
616
00:31:17,870 --> 00:31:23,230
If you put in a good economy, if you, if you feel safe, there's going to be, I don't care what you are.
617
00:31:23,390 --> 00:31:24,350
I don't care.
618
00:31:24,550 --> 00:31:24,830
Right.
619
00:31:24,870 --> 00:31:25,790
A democratic president.
620
00:31:26,250 --> 00:31:32,270
But when you are shoving things down our throats, that doesn't make sense.
621
00:31:32,270 --> 00:31:33,970
It doesn't make sense at all.
622
00:31:34,090 --> 00:31:40,870
Like why are we all fighting about taking criminals off our streets that are hurting our own citizens?
623
00:31:41,030 --> 00:31:44,970
That should be a, everybody should go agree next.
624
00:31:45,270 --> 00:31:50,730
And I think everybody does, but the people who talk about it online don't do that.
625
00:31:50,870 --> 00:31:51,090
There is.
626
00:31:51,170 --> 00:31:51,570
And you're right.
627
00:31:51,590 --> 00:31:52,490
We don't do that now.
628
00:31:52,530 --> 00:31:54,910
And I think liberals are very, very good at it.
629
00:31:55,030 --> 00:32:08,030
They pretend that their guy is done nothing wrong and they won't even talk about it where you should be able to look at, like, I can look at Obama and think he did something.
630
00:32:08,130 --> 00:32:10,130
I like my favorite thing is that he did.
631
00:32:10,730 --> 00:32:14,370
He deported more people than Trump and Biden.
632
00:32:14,810 --> 00:32:16,590
He was the deporter in chief.
633
00:32:16,590 --> 00:32:18,210
People forget all the people.
634
00:32:18,350 --> 00:32:21,330
He deported 3 million people.
635
00:32:21,610 --> 00:32:21,870
Yes.
636
00:32:22,150 --> 00:32:24,230
Like that was the best thing he did.
637
00:32:24,490 --> 00:32:26,470
But the funny thing is there's no like checks and bails.
638
00:32:26,590 --> 00:32:27,890
I was like, wait a minute.
639
00:32:28,150 --> 00:32:28,370
Yeah.
640
00:32:28,430 --> 00:32:31,330
No, but I mean, there's no, also no arguing with it.
641
00:32:31,470 --> 00:32:38,190
This is fun because I talk about this, but like engaging online is just a dog fight.
642
00:32:38,190 --> 00:32:39,650
No, you can't listen.
643
00:32:39,690 --> 00:32:44,550
We're skimming through things that doesn't make sense to some people.
644
00:32:44,650 --> 00:32:59,210
It might make sense and that's fine, but we're, we're saying our part and how ridiculous when you have an actress, that's a billionaire that says, I, there's nothing I can do.
645
00:32:59,370 --> 00:33:06,650
I was, I was a permanent, um, resident for 45, almost 50 years.
646
00:33:07,090 --> 00:33:07,270
Right.
647
00:33:07,270 --> 00:33:08,930
And I felt American.
648
00:33:09,050 --> 00:33:16,570
The only difference, I didn't have my citizenship and I got it in 2017 or 19, 2019.
649
00:33:16,910 --> 00:33:18,290
I'm sorry, 2019.
650
00:33:18,290 --> 00:33:25,290
I became an American citizen and it's the most proud that I've ever been to go through this process.
651
00:33:25,450 --> 00:33:42,050
And to tell me that someone can come over with a criminal record, bringing drugs to our country, the country that my parents took two little kids on a boat, came over here with nothing and tried to live the American dream, which we succeeded.
652
00:33:42,510 --> 00:33:49,830
And you're going to allow chaos on our streets when there's real people that need to come here for the American dream.
653
00:33:49,930 --> 00:33:50,110
Yeah.
654
00:33:50,310 --> 00:33:55,510
The people that let them come the right way and let them build what America is all about.
655
00:33:55,690 --> 00:33:56,690
I'm an immigrant.
656
00:33:57,030 --> 00:33:58,870
I came here from another country.
657
00:33:59,050 --> 00:34:01,310
This was my third country in five years.
658
00:34:01,410 --> 00:34:04,750
My third language that I was living under.
659
00:34:05,390 --> 00:34:05,950
And I understood.
660
00:34:06,150 --> 00:34:14,610
And yes, I didn't come from, you know, the countries that are coming from now, but back then they were the, we were not liked.
661
00:34:14,850 --> 00:34:18,610
We were, we were, we were still immigrants coming here, not speaking English.
662
00:34:18,929 --> 00:34:20,570
We felt all that.
663
00:34:20,870 --> 00:34:21,070
Yep.
664
00:34:21,330 --> 00:34:21,850
Absolutely.
665
00:34:22,090 --> 00:34:24,350
So I don't have anything wrong with immigration.
666
00:34:24,570 --> 00:34:26,530
No, I encourage immigration.
667
00:34:26,750 --> 00:34:28,530
America is immigration.
668
00:34:28,750 --> 00:34:30,389
What I think is interesting.
669
00:34:30,469 --> 00:34:31,489
And this is an example of it.
670
00:34:31,610 --> 00:34:34,210
There are complex problems and there are simple problems.
671
00:34:34,630 --> 00:34:44,510
And this is really a simple problem, but we talk about it a lot because it is a polarizing issue, right?
672
00:34:44,550 --> 00:34:50,630
The news likes to cover it and politicians like to talk about it and they don't like to solve it because it's easy to talk about.
673
00:34:50,770 --> 00:34:52,429
It's polarizing and it continues.
674
00:34:52,770 --> 00:34:53,010
Yeah.
675
00:34:53,110 --> 00:35:01,850
You can't stop something because then the rate, the really complex show, the really complex problems nobody talks about, but this is a simple one and we like to talk about it.
676
00:35:01,870 --> 00:35:02,610
It's not super simple.
677
00:35:02,790 --> 00:35:08,370
There are steps that have to be taken, but I think there are common sense things happening right now that are good.
678
00:35:09,110 --> 00:35:15,130
And Selena Gomez just take some acting lessons and use that anger when you're acting.
679
00:35:15,170 --> 00:35:15,590
Yeah.
680
00:35:15,790 --> 00:35:16,130
She is.
681
00:35:16,210 --> 00:35:19,210
I'm telling you, that's why I'm telling you like this.
682
00:35:19,270 --> 00:35:25,950
It absolutely was sincere because there's no way she could, Meryl Streep couldn't have pulled off a performance like that.
683
00:35:26,070 --> 00:35:30,130
And she can't believe she honestly feels that way about her people.
684
00:35:30,290 --> 00:35:33,430
Honestly, you don't think this is a, a work.
685
00:35:33,610 --> 00:35:39,110
Look, there is, it doesn't mean just because it doesn't make sense doesn't mean they don't convince themselves of it.
686
00:35:39,370 --> 00:35:43,910
And, and that's, and that, that generation are very good at that.
687
00:35:43,930 --> 00:35:50,570
But anyhow, so that is going to be our new segment where I say me perhaps unpopular things.
688
00:35:50,790 --> 00:35:55,310
So we want your, we want your opinions on, I'm warning you.
689
00:35:55,930 --> 00:35:57,250
Just leave me alone.
690
00:35:57,330 --> 00:35:58,410
Just leave me alone.
691
00:35:58,710 --> 00:36:01,090
Frank around and find out Frank around.
692
00:36:01,150 --> 00:36:01,810
That's my favorite.
693
00:36:01,950 --> 00:36:03,630
Frank around and find out.
694
00:36:03,830 --> 00:36:08,090
Cause there are a lot of interesting things that, that, that we could, we'll be able to dive into.
695
00:36:08,230 --> 00:36:08,470
Yeah.
696
00:36:08,610 --> 00:36:10,390
It's a little bit off the baby.
697
00:36:10,510 --> 00:36:10,950
Yeah.
698
00:36:11,050 --> 00:36:11,390
Baby.
699
00:36:11,990 --> 00:36:13,230
This stuff affects.
700
00:36:13,350 --> 00:36:15,570
Look, I think about that stuff all the time.
701
00:36:15,750 --> 00:36:17,450
You're going to be raising a child.
702
00:36:17,610 --> 00:36:20,370
My, my kid is going to face these challenges.
703
00:36:20,630 --> 00:36:25,630
She's going to be interested in these people who are popular that are idiots.
704
00:36:26,050 --> 00:36:29,790
And I have to find a way to help her navigate that too.
705
00:36:30,130 --> 00:36:38,910
You can appreciate the talent, the musical talent or the performance talent or the dance moves, but these are not smart people.
706
00:36:39,370 --> 00:36:40,310
That's, that's the thing.
707
00:36:40,390 --> 00:36:50,990
Now that getting back to raising a family, the scary thing about social media, these people that are famous on social media, influencers, thank you.
708
00:36:51,130 --> 00:36:57,090
Influencers, their power holds, their words hold so much with these young people, man.
709
00:36:57,230 --> 00:36:58,190
It's scary.
710
00:36:58,650 --> 00:37:00,290
It's so scary.
711
00:37:00,950 --> 00:37:15,290
And I'm telling you right now, and I have, I believe I have some wise children and still, you can see them in there, like being influenced by these people, but they're smart enough because the way we raise them, that they don't follow it through.
712
00:37:16,470 --> 00:37:20,650
But it's so tough when you see these, like, Oh, you have to, this guy is this and that.
713
00:37:20,690 --> 00:37:24,290
And I'm like, Whoa, you know, hold on.
714
00:37:24,330 --> 00:37:25,630
Do not give them any power.
715
00:37:25,790 --> 00:37:34,910
I think that's the only antidote for that because it's true the way it's delivered and how, how much access they have to to kids.
716
00:37:35,450 --> 00:37:42,090
I think the approach that I want to try to take is to teach them to ask questions.
717
00:37:42,890 --> 00:37:45,990
That's one thing that like that we've talked about with Kelly.
718
00:37:46,230 --> 00:37:50,490
Kelly has a conversational style that immediately she challenges stuff.
719
00:37:50,570 --> 00:37:57,190
She enjoys taking the counterpoint and she's good at it and cultivating that in a kid.
720
00:37:57,650 --> 00:37:59,610
Cause when you hear the stuff, you're like, yeah, that makes sense.
721
00:37:59,750 --> 00:38:00,690
Sometimes I'll hear something.
722
00:38:00,810 --> 00:38:04,950
I'll be like, I'll question myself and be like, really, I wonder if this is true.
723
00:38:05,390 --> 00:38:12,890
And then a little bit of digging and a little bit of questioning and you see, you get context and you understand, then things come into focus.
724
00:38:13,010 --> 00:38:14,750
It's scary, but it is, it is.
725
00:38:14,770 --> 00:38:24,790
But part of what we have to look forward to, well, the parenting aspect, that's when, that's when you come in to play your contribution to your child.
726
00:38:24,890 --> 00:38:25,890
You're molding them.
727
00:38:26,070 --> 00:38:37,890
What, you know, you're allowing them to understand and believe and is all going to be very important because there's going to be elements of other things trying to teach them as well, pulling them in different directions.
728
00:38:38,330 --> 00:38:38,810
100%.
729
00:38:38,810 --> 00:38:39,430
That's true.
730
00:38:40,050 --> 00:38:43,490
So we can now move on to, and there's a lot of that.
731
00:38:43,550 --> 00:38:48,570
We had some fun stuff to talk about this week, but we'll move into what just happened.
732
00:38:49,370 --> 00:38:50,090
All right.
733
00:38:50,390 --> 00:38:55,750
So one of the fun things, I don't know if that's fun, but it was a good thing.
734
00:38:55,930 --> 00:39:01,790
We have, typically we go to mass on Sunday and then we go to Wegmans and we get groceries together.
735
00:39:01,830 --> 00:39:02,170
Beautiful.
736
00:39:02,710 --> 00:39:06,250
And the last few times Kelly will need a break.
737
00:39:06,270 --> 00:39:11,630
Usually by the time we get to around the pharmacy in the middle of the, she just needs a coffee break.
738
00:39:11,890 --> 00:39:11,990
Yeah.
739
00:39:12,470 --> 00:39:15,130
And so she needs a little stop this time.
740
00:39:15,170 --> 00:39:19,570
Now little Josie has changed position and has moved down a little bit.
741
00:39:20,130 --> 00:39:25,470
And that I think is allowing her to move around a little bit better.
742
00:39:26,390 --> 00:39:30,110
She, Kelly calls it her waddle or her duck walk.
743
00:39:30,170 --> 00:39:36,270
Sometimes we'll talk when she's on her way to work and then she's like, okay, I have to waddle across the street and she gets to work.
744
00:39:36,490 --> 00:39:40,870
So the baby shifting a little and has made it possible.
745
00:39:40,990 --> 00:39:44,310
So we had our first visit to Wegmans with no, with no pit stops.
746
00:39:44,850 --> 00:39:46,110
So that was nice.
747
00:39:46,510 --> 00:39:49,710
And then we have continued with the childbirth videos.
748
00:39:50,010 --> 00:39:51,430
Yes, we were getting to that.
749
00:39:51,610 --> 00:39:54,790
I have to say they ended much, much stronger.
750
00:39:55,250 --> 00:39:59,770
The beginning, not great, but then the examples that they went through.
751
00:40:00,030 --> 00:40:15,430
Now the woman, the facilitator, boring from start to finish, but the content was better and we kind of cranked through and we, and then at the end we printed up all these little handouts and stuff so that we have stuff to review.
752
00:40:15,750 --> 00:40:18,530
But we, we got all those papers and burned them.
753
00:40:19,590 --> 00:40:23,310
Well, honestly, I should show you, I thought about making that a segment.
754
00:40:23,710 --> 00:40:25,570
I was going to have Carlo read.
755
00:40:25,930 --> 00:40:26,210
Oh God.
756
00:40:26,310 --> 00:40:38,150
There's like these one page documents with like six little pictograms of things you can say things for the birthing person that I hated that about this too.
757
00:40:38,370 --> 00:40:41,370
They don't say mothers, of course, no birthing person.
758
00:40:41,430 --> 00:40:43,790
Cause it could be a guy named Chuck.
759
00:40:43,930 --> 00:40:44,130
Right.
760
00:40:44,230 --> 00:40:45,270
Chuck could be having the baby.
761
00:40:45,370 --> 00:40:45,670
Yes.
762
00:40:45,950 --> 00:40:51,830
So it was like six things that it was things that the mother should like self-talk like reinforcing.
763
00:40:52,210 --> 00:40:52,730
Beautiful.
764
00:40:52,730 --> 00:40:56,430
This pain will give me the most beautiful thing in my life.
765
00:40:56,450 --> 00:40:57,210
Oh, stop.
766
00:40:57,530 --> 00:40:57,910
Things like that.
767
00:40:57,950 --> 00:40:59,070
I was going to have you read them.
768
00:40:59,070 --> 00:40:59,790
Oh God.
769
00:40:59,790 --> 00:41:00,890
Do a dramatic reading.
770
00:41:00,970 --> 00:41:04,710
We could do that in the future, but it was just ridiculous nonsense.
771
00:41:04,850 --> 00:41:23,110
But they did cover, they also covered the things in the last few classes that you really have to be aware of as, as the birth gets closer and more signs, the Braxton Hicks contractions and to the, the warning signs, which I, they talk about preeclampsia.
772
00:41:23,510 --> 00:41:24,390
And do you remember?
773
00:41:24,590 --> 00:41:26,030
So I don't recall that.
774
00:41:26,090 --> 00:41:30,450
So that's one of those things essentially means it's the onset.
775
00:41:30,690 --> 00:41:35,410
It's a high blood pressure condition that can indicate the onset of stroke or seizure.
776
00:41:35,650 --> 00:41:36,110
Oh, okay.
777
00:41:36,150 --> 00:41:37,750
So it's very, very bad.
778
00:41:38,030 --> 00:41:39,830
If that happens, you got to be very careful.
779
00:41:39,990 --> 00:41:49,170
They talked a lot about that and all of the warning signs, but basically the warning signs are kind of all internal and they're directing it at both of us.
780
00:41:49,290 --> 00:41:57,130
And the only thing I could watch for is like facial swelling and Kelly's, you know, Kelly's face, you would never know she's pregnant.
781
00:41:57,330 --> 00:42:01,570
So I, I have to keep an eye on if she all of a sudden blows up.
782
00:42:01,690 --> 00:42:04,290
Like you would know I would notice that's not, and I'll be ready.
783
00:42:04,470 --> 00:42:04,630
Right.
784
00:42:04,750 --> 00:42:05,430
But yeah.
785
00:42:05,430 --> 00:42:07,410
So I think overall it was a good experience.
786
00:42:07,410 --> 00:42:13,290
And then we have coming up now the next level, which is our real thing.
787
00:42:13,510 --> 00:42:17,010
Well, that's coming soon is the hospital, the hospital tour.
788
00:42:17,490 --> 00:42:17,890
Yes.
789
00:42:17,990 --> 00:42:18,810
So now what hospital?
790
00:42:19,050 --> 00:42:19,290
Yeah.
791
00:42:19,570 --> 00:42:20,490
What hospital community?
792
00:42:20,850 --> 00:42:21,230
I believe.
793
00:42:21,310 --> 00:42:21,570
Okay.
794
00:42:21,630 --> 00:42:22,490
Is that the one out now?
795
00:42:23,150 --> 00:42:23,550
Yes.
796
00:42:23,690 --> 00:42:24,110
Far away.
797
00:42:24,210 --> 00:42:24,490
Far away.
798
00:42:24,630 --> 00:42:25,890
So we're doing St. Joe's.
799
00:42:25,970 --> 00:42:26,130
Okay.
800
00:42:26,290 --> 00:42:27,350
So we're going there.
801
00:42:27,510 --> 00:42:28,870
That's got new addition.
802
00:42:28,990 --> 00:42:33,290
I believe the baby or this will be the first time I paid attention at the hospital.
803
00:42:33,350 --> 00:42:35,310
I'll be like, this will be fun.
804
00:42:35,370 --> 00:42:35,690
So yeah.
805
00:42:35,690 --> 00:42:36,710
So we get to go do that.
806
00:42:36,830 --> 00:42:38,250
I guess pick out our suite.
807
00:42:38,430 --> 00:42:38,670
Yeah.
808
00:42:40,450 --> 00:42:45,650
They'll explain to you all the setup and what room where to crash the car as you park.
809
00:42:46,870 --> 00:42:48,830
It is so crazy though.
810
00:42:48,890 --> 00:42:56,150
It brings me back to that moment of with my first of not knowing what the heck's going on.
811
00:42:56,230 --> 00:43:09,170
And you go there and the crazy thing is you go there with your wife and I know everybody says this and then you come back and there's another human that wasn't there, but it was always there.
812
00:43:09,170 --> 00:43:13,610
Like I always say to you, the baby's in the room with you, but it's really, you know, it's like, you can't touch it.
813
00:43:13,650 --> 00:43:14,190
Can't feel it.
814
00:43:14,270 --> 00:43:15,190
Can't see the face.
815
00:43:15,370 --> 00:43:17,090
And then eventually there it is.
816
00:43:17,250 --> 00:43:17,490
Yeah.
817
00:43:17,890 --> 00:43:21,110
They say that that's the way hospitals work at the beginning of life.
818
00:43:21,130 --> 00:43:27,410
And at the end of life, you go in and two people go in and three come out in the beginning and two people go in and one comes out.
819
00:43:28,950 --> 00:43:33,270
But it brings me back to that moment of like, Oh my God, it's happening.
820
00:43:33,470 --> 00:43:34,670
Oh my God, it's going to happen.
821
00:43:34,730 --> 00:43:35,270
It's going to happen.
822
00:43:35,370 --> 00:43:36,350
I'm going to see this baby.
823
00:43:36,450 --> 00:43:36,750
Yeah.
824
00:43:37,110 --> 00:43:42,270
Cause eventually, I mean, I know you probably didn't, but you're going to get to a point where I just want to see you.
825
00:43:42,410 --> 00:43:43,870
I want to see your face.
826
00:43:43,970 --> 00:43:45,310
I want to hold your hands.
827
00:43:45,410 --> 00:43:47,230
I want to, you know, you're going to get to that right now.
828
00:43:47,250 --> 00:43:48,070
You're probably getting there.
829
00:43:48,150 --> 00:43:48,470
Oh yeah.
830
00:43:48,550 --> 00:43:50,870
I think Kelly Kelly definitely is.
831
00:43:50,870 --> 00:43:51,110
Yeah.
832
00:43:51,230 --> 00:44:04,050
And I think that moment when you're, when you know it's going to happen either that day or tomorrow morning or whatever, it becomes so real and emotional and you're like, Oh my God, I'm actually going to see it.
833
00:44:04,230 --> 00:44:06,230
And in my case, I didn't know if it was a male or female.
834
00:44:06,630 --> 00:44:10,390
So I was like, I was playing all these things in my mind.
835
00:44:10,510 --> 00:44:11,930
Like it's a good little girl.
836
00:44:12,010 --> 00:44:16,190
I'm going to have a little daughter or if I'm a boy and we can Buffalo bills.
837
00:44:16,490 --> 00:44:24,310
And not that I couldn't do that with my daughter, but you know, you go through all this stuff and that just added more anxiety and excitement.
838
00:44:24,690 --> 00:44:32,310
And it's so cool though, that you get to bring this child home and it's yours.
839
00:44:32,310 --> 00:44:35,490
And everything you thought of forever.
840
00:44:35,950 --> 00:44:44,270
Cause I know you, I've known you forever now and you've always, you know, I always thought very highly of having a family and children and, and now you, you're there.
841
00:44:44,390 --> 00:44:44,950
It's so close.
842
00:44:45,090 --> 00:44:45,570
And now it's there.
843
00:44:45,590 --> 00:44:46,330
It's there.
844
00:44:46,430 --> 00:44:49,090
You can squeeze it and kiss it and love it.
845
00:44:49,230 --> 00:44:49,830
Oh my God.
846
00:44:49,930 --> 00:44:50,770
It's the best time.
847
00:44:51,490 --> 00:44:52,230
God bless you.
848
00:44:52,290 --> 00:44:52,770
Enjoy it.
849
00:44:52,890 --> 00:44:54,210
I can't wait to see the baby.
850
00:44:54,330 --> 00:44:54,750
I'm going to try.
851
00:44:54,990 --> 00:44:56,730
I'm, I'm very excited for it.
852
00:44:56,790 --> 00:45:06,790
We did, I did do a one, a first thing that in preparation, as, as you guys know, we had one shower, we're waiting.
853
00:45:06,990 --> 00:45:08,410
The next shower is coming up.
854
00:45:09,890 --> 00:45:10,670
I'm sorry.
855
00:45:10,810 --> 00:45:12,950
I thought you were talking about a shower, like in your hospital.
856
00:45:13,050 --> 00:45:15,890
How would they know you have one shower and you have more than one shower?
857
00:45:16,010 --> 00:45:16,270
We do.
858
00:45:16,450 --> 00:45:17,610
I'm at the baby shower.
859
00:45:17,810 --> 00:45:25,110
So we had Kelly's first baby shower in Buffalo where I have the Syracuse version coming up that my sister is hosting.
860
00:45:25,730 --> 00:45:33,870
And, but you know, from the first one and from other people, just, we've gotten tons of baby clothes and all the stuff.
861
00:45:34,310 --> 00:45:38,690
So this was the first time I'm the laundry guy in our household.
862
00:45:38,810 --> 00:45:39,770
So I always, I do the laundry.
863
00:45:40,050 --> 00:45:43,650
So I got to do baby stuff in the laundry for the first time.
864
00:45:44,270 --> 00:45:47,570
And I was like, now I have a good, like, I'm good at laundry.
865
00:45:48,090 --> 00:45:50,310
I have a very good system fold.
866
00:45:50,450 --> 00:45:52,350
I fold very nicely and neatly.
867
00:45:52,810 --> 00:45:56,930
When Kelly tries to help, I make her stand down because she does not do it right.
868
00:45:57,310 --> 00:45:58,110
It's not right.
869
00:45:58,750 --> 00:46:01,490
So, but this stuff is all like, what do you like?
870
00:46:01,730 --> 00:46:02,470
What do you do with it?
871
00:46:02,750 --> 00:46:06,890
I just let Kelly, I'm like, okay, show me.
872
00:46:06,950 --> 00:46:07,290
Right.
873
00:46:07,370 --> 00:46:07,690
What are you?
874
00:46:10,010 --> 00:46:14,470
She rolled lots of stuff to save space, I guess.
875
00:46:14,490 --> 00:46:14,950
I don't know.
876
00:46:15,270 --> 00:46:16,750
Cause it's not going on hangers.
877
00:46:18,330 --> 00:46:19,210
But that was fun.
878
00:46:19,230 --> 00:46:21,030
So I got to do my first load of baby laundry.
879
00:46:22,050 --> 00:46:22,910
That was fun.
880
00:46:23,130 --> 00:46:23,950
We did that.
881
00:46:23,950 --> 00:46:29,570
We also, I didn't, I shouldn't say we, Kelly got her thank you notes done from the first shower.
882
00:46:29,810 --> 00:46:33,690
So she wanted, she was very important to her to have them done before the next shower.
883
00:46:33,990 --> 00:46:35,330
She doesn't want to get behind.
884
00:46:35,790 --> 00:46:53,370
The other important thing that we did, which I'm excited about was we, first of all, I was excited because I got to build a spreadsheet to figure out the timing of how long Kelly will be out, which will then inform how long I'll be out.
885
00:46:53,490 --> 00:46:58,150
So I, we figured out, so I got to keep, I like, I keep getting out of your house.
886
00:46:58,310 --> 00:46:59,010
No, no, no.
887
00:46:59,130 --> 00:47:01,050
How much time away from work.
888
00:47:01,450 --> 00:47:09,990
So she had, so she basically told me how many hours of maternity leave and how many hours of saved up time that she has.
889
00:47:10,170 --> 00:47:19,910
And then we tried different models right out for out for 12 weeks and then go back two days a week and then go up to three.
890
00:47:20,350 --> 00:47:23,430
So we worked out a whole system that basically it's going to be nice.
891
00:47:23,530 --> 00:47:30,330
She won't have to return to work full time until like the first week of January, January.
892
00:47:30,510 --> 00:47:30,790
Oh yeah.
893
00:47:30,910 --> 00:47:31,890
Cause baby's coming in March.
894
00:47:32,070 --> 00:47:32,430
Right.
895
00:47:32,530 --> 00:47:33,870
So the next year, the next year.
896
00:47:33,950 --> 00:47:35,890
So she'll be able to take, it's going to be nice.
897
00:47:35,970 --> 00:47:36,810
She'll be able to go to all,
898
00:47:36,870 --> 00:47:43,690
you think all the way to like June or July off and then go back two days a week for a couple weeks
899
00:47:44,110 --> 00:47:50,950
and then three days a week for like a month and then four days, four days a week for, or no,
900
00:47:51,070 --> 00:47:56,170
three days a week for a long time for a couple months, two, three months, and then go back to
901
00:47:56,170 --> 00:48:01,550
four days a week for a couple of weeks before ramping all the way back up to five, five days
902
00:48:01,550 --> 00:48:01,890
a week.
903
00:48:02,510 --> 00:48:05,850
So yeah, so, but it was, and we worked all that out.
904
00:48:05,890 --> 00:48:09,470
So then now I can figure out, I don't have as much time as she does.
905
00:48:09,770 --> 00:48:12,430
She has, she has a ton of time banked.
906
00:48:13,690 --> 00:48:33,290
But so I won't be able to take as much, but I think I'm going to, at the very least, I'll be able to have, I think I'm going to take one full month of no work and then I might go, might go back one day a week for a few weeks and then, but I'll, I'll be back back at it pretty, uh, pretty soon.
907
00:48:33,450 --> 00:48:34,870
You know, probably by the end of the summer.
908
00:48:35,010 --> 00:48:36,610
Are you traveling as much now?
909
00:48:37,390 --> 00:48:44,550
Not really right now, but I'm at the point now with some of the projects that we're working on that I will have to start to travel a little bit.
910
00:48:44,710 --> 00:48:49,510
I was able to work in when we went to my brothers in Nashville for Thanksgiving.
911
00:48:49,950 --> 00:48:52,170
I paired it with some business stuff.
912
00:48:52,510 --> 00:48:55,650
So we're looking around for new locations and that might require some travel.
913
00:48:55,650 --> 00:49:01,050
And that's going to be the new thing too, that you obviously lived all this life that you didn't have to put that thought in.
914
00:49:01,170 --> 00:49:03,770
Now you have to be like, Oh, I have to plan time.
915
00:49:03,990 --> 00:49:04,350
Yeah.
916
00:49:04,530 --> 00:49:04,790
Right.
917
00:49:04,870 --> 00:49:07,870
I mean, before you're like, okay, this is my job.
918
00:49:07,910 --> 00:49:08,490
I got to go away.
919
00:49:08,790 --> 00:49:09,590
You're an adult.
920
00:49:09,650 --> 00:49:10,330
You can stay alone.
921
00:49:10,330 --> 00:49:11,950
Now it's like, wait a minute.
922
00:49:12,090 --> 00:49:14,950
I have to, there's a, yeah, there's a, there's a system.
923
00:49:15,130 --> 00:49:16,570
There's got to be system in place.
924
00:49:16,830 --> 00:49:16,930
Yeah.
925
00:49:16,930 --> 00:49:25,610
The closest thing I ever had to that was when I was single and had a dog and you would come over, like I would be forgotten for an overnight and you'd go, you'd stop over and take care of my dog.
926
00:49:26,610 --> 00:49:27,210
So yeah.
927
00:49:27,290 --> 00:49:28,150
So no, yeah.
928
00:49:28,150 --> 00:49:29,750
Different kind of a little more important.
929
00:49:29,870 --> 00:49:30,050
Right.
930
00:49:30,110 --> 00:49:32,650
But that's like, you have to like, yeah, I got to think about that stuff.
931
00:49:32,730 --> 00:49:37,390
Your life now has to be that at all times thought process.
932
00:49:37,470 --> 00:49:39,830
Like, Oh, I just can't pick up and go.
933
00:49:39,830 --> 00:49:41,610
Well, I'll take a week off.
934
00:49:41,990 --> 00:49:43,030
I'll travel though.
935
00:49:43,370 --> 00:49:45,930
You know, cause now, you know, like, and then you'll start feeling bad.
936
00:49:46,050 --> 00:49:48,030
You obviously want to see your own child.
937
00:49:48,250 --> 00:49:50,490
Then you're thinking of your wife or she's thinking of you.
938
00:49:51,310 --> 00:49:53,190
And that's tough too though.
939
00:49:53,310 --> 00:49:53,890
That's tough.
940
00:49:54,250 --> 00:49:57,450
Luckily, I think I'm, I mean, I think it's going to be good.
941
00:49:57,650 --> 00:49:57,850
Yeah.
942
00:49:57,890 --> 00:50:01,550
I'm very structured and I like planning out that way.
943
00:50:01,670 --> 00:50:04,290
And I like being in a particular, like a predictable rhythm.
944
00:50:04,850 --> 00:50:08,430
So I, I, I think we'll be, we're going to be in good shape.
945
00:50:08,690 --> 00:50:14,310
The best thing that I was allowed to do was, and I think this all the time, my mom would raise our kids.
946
00:50:14,330 --> 00:50:14,530
Right.
947
00:50:14,570 --> 00:50:17,390
I mean, uh, my, my, uh, my brother's kids.
948
00:50:17,390 --> 00:50:22,470
And then when I had kids, um, my mom, like just bring them here, go to work, get your life going.
949
00:50:22,750 --> 00:50:23,010
Right.
950
00:50:23,110 --> 00:50:30,290
I mean, that's the, and of course it was the best gift to anybody where your kids can be brought up by your parents.
951
00:50:30,390 --> 00:50:37,330
But then my mom was getting a little older and it was tough, you know, it's and lucky enough, my wife got a really nice promotion.
952
00:50:37,710 --> 00:50:37,850
Yeah.
953
00:50:38,310 --> 00:50:46,810
And at that time where she was getting her promotion kind of overrode what I was making a year and my mom was getting older.
954
00:50:46,810 --> 00:50:51,450
And now the school, my son was getting old enough to figure out the school he would have to go to.
955
00:50:51,550 --> 00:50:59,930
So do we keep them at my mom's and go to a different school or do we keep them across the street from our house where the school district is?
956
00:51:00,330 --> 00:51:05,250
And I was lucky enough and we were lucky enough for my wife said, you know, why don't you just stay home?
957
00:51:05,390 --> 00:51:09,110
I got this promotion and your mom's getting a little older.
958
00:51:09,150 --> 00:51:10,290
Your dad's getting a little older.
959
00:51:10,450 --> 00:51:13,090
And I was able to raise, I was a stayed home dad.
960
00:51:13,250 --> 00:51:13,390
Yeah.
961
00:51:13,950 --> 00:51:20,630
And let me tell you, my friend, it was the best, absolute best job I've ever had.
962
00:51:20,730 --> 00:51:24,310
Wasn't a job was my life, but it's people, it is a job.
963
00:51:24,870 --> 00:51:31,910
It was the best way to know my family, my, to get to know my kids.
964
00:51:32,090 --> 00:51:41,710
And, and, and I think that's why me and my kids have such a tight bond because I was there every now and then I was, we would go to the baseball games.
965
00:51:41,710 --> 00:51:43,590
We'd go to the school things.
966
00:51:43,590 --> 00:51:45,990
I would be, and it was the best job.
967
00:51:46,230 --> 00:51:47,770
I have a pretty cool job now.
968
00:51:47,870 --> 00:51:49,670
I have a really cool job.
969
00:51:49,810 --> 00:51:52,650
And I'm telling you right now, when I was a stayed home dad.
970
00:51:52,650 --> 00:51:55,070
You still work with toddlers.
971
00:51:58,750 --> 00:52:00,610
Just emotional, emotionally.
972
00:52:01,630 --> 00:52:05,170
We're all just like running around screaming like Selena Gomez.
973
00:52:06,490 --> 00:52:08,510
And I'll tell you right now, I wouldn't give it up for the world.
974
00:52:08,610 --> 00:52:08,990
What I did.
975
00:52:09,050 --> 00:52:09,390
Yeah.
976
00:52:09,450 --> 00:52:10,350
That was the best job.
977
00:52:10,770 --> 00:52:21,590
Honestly, I think about, I think about that, especially with the idea of potentially homeschool that for me, I love what I do, but we could, we could do that.
978
00:52:23,270 --> 00:52:38,150
Even if it's for that years of before school, you know, whatever you decide with that, that five years, six years in my kids till this day go, Hey dad, remember every day you would pick me up and we would have our, we'd have our slice of pizza.
979
00:52:38,250 --> 00:52:41,070
He would have a slice of pizza and a chocolate milk.
980
00:52:41,290 --> 00:52:43,010
And dad, you would have a cup of coffee.
981
00:52:43,310 --> 00:52:46,750
We'd go to our friend's place and it was a daily thing.
982
00:52:46,990 --> 00:52:50,590
And he still talks about, he still has his memory, him and his dad.
983
00:52:50,970 --> 00:52:51,330
Yeah.
984
00:52:51,710 --> 00:52:52,430
That's awesome.
985
00:52:52,910 --> 00:52:54,090
Well, you never know.
986
00:52:54,210 --> 00:52:55,050
You never know.
987
00:52:55,310 --> 00:53:00,210
So if anybody's out there doing it, man, God bless you.
988
00:53:00,310 --> 00:53:02,030
It's the best job you'll ever have.
989
00:53:02,250 --> 00:53:09,150
Any stay at home pair, anybody who has the opportunity to be a stay at home parent, mom or dad, I don't know why you wouldn't do it.
990
00:53:09,490 --> 00:53:11,390
I don't know why you wouldn't love it.
991
00:53:11,390 --> 00:53:11,770
Love it.
992
00:53:11,830 --> 00:53:11,990
Love it.
993
00:53:12,010 --> 00:53:12,210
Love it.
994
00:53:12,250 --> 00:53:12,470
Love it.
995
00:53:12,750 --> 00:53:15,030
So we worked out the timing stuff.
996
00:53:15,150 --> 00:53:16,750
I think that that was a good thing.
997
00:53:16,790 --> 00:53:18,350
And that adds to the excitement.
998
00:53:18,690 --> 00:53:23,450
I have to admit, this has been interesting with Kelly.
999
00:53:24,030 --> 00:53:29,750
Now she's been doing a great job since the gestational diabetes diagnosis.
1000
00:53:30,030 --> 00:53:37,430
She has got her, her diet is on point, but she's said a couple of things and it made me think, and then we talked about it a little bit.
1001
00:53:37,730 --> 00:53:41,750
One day she's like, she started planning her first meal after the baby's born.
1002
00:53:42,610 --> 00:53:46,690
She's like, I want to have a Reuben sandwich and this.
1003
00:53:46,810 --> 00:53:49,230
And I'm like, cause she can't, that's hilarious.
1004
00:53:49,550 --> 00:53:55,730
But I think when I get out of jail, my first thing is a steak, but we're talking about it and I'm thinking about it.
1005
00:53:55,730 --> 00:54:00,270
And it's interesting because as we've said, we talk about food a lot on the podcast.
1006
00:54:01,090 --> 00:54:03,810
She has not, she does not have that relationship with food.
1007
00:54:03,870 --> 00:54:04,250
Yes.
1008
00:54:04,430 --> 00:54:14,150
But for the first time in my, my lovely wife's life, she has had to think about what she's eating cause she's thin.
1009
00:54:14,950 --> 00:54:16,370
She doesn't like sweets.
1010
00:54:16,650 --> 00:54:21,070
Not that she doesn't like them, but she's not like, like she doesn't die for cookies like I do.
1011
00:54:21,370 --> 00:54:26,670
So she's never, so she's always been thin and has never had to worry about that.
1012
00:54:26,990 --> 00:54:28,390
And now, yeah, I know.
1013
00:54:28,490 --> 00:54:32,350
But now for the first time, she's having to think about that.
1014
00:54:32,470 --> 00:54:37,290
She even said the other day, she's like, I kind of understand you better now.
1015
00:54:39,130 --> 00:54:50,630
Like I'm laughing, but mine is because my, because when my parents would fight, when I was a kid, my sisters would put a cake in front of me to try to keep me happy.
1016
00:54:51,470 --> 00:54:54,110
It was, and I know I'm going to get, there'll be multiple.
1017
00:54:54,230 --> 00:54:55,890
I was wrong from just that.
1018
00:54:56,090 --> 00:54:58,510
It was a pie from my, from my sisters.
1019
00:54:58,610 --> 00:55:00,170
But that, you know, that's what it is.
1020
00:55:00,170 --> 00:55:01,470
But she, she didn't have any of this.
1021
00:55:01,470 --> 00:55:03,030
She's like, I started to understand.
1022
00:55:03,050 --> 00:55:05,730
It's that, it's that scarcity mentality.
1023
00:55:06,010 --> 00:55:17,390
Once you can't have it, you want to, you know, but yeah, she's never had to think about like, I don't, I'm sure she's never been on a diet as you're talking about, as you're talking right now, I'm thinking about food.
1024
00:55:18,250 --> 00:55:25,890
That's how bad everything you're saying is like thinking we should have more food on this podcast.
1025
00:55:26,710 --> 00:55:27,970
You're bringing up great points.
1026
00:55:28,890 --> 00:55:30,950
By 2026, it'll just be a cookie.
1027
00:55:31,210 --> 00:55:33,970
You said Ruben screwed my whole cooking show.
1028
00:55:34,170 --> 00:55:34,570
Yeah.
1029
00:55:34,590 --> 00:55:38,090
So this is yet another way that the pregnancy has brought us closer.
1030
00:55:38,310 --> 00:55:40,630
She's like, no, I understand why you love cookies.
1031
00:55:40,810 --> 00:55:41,850
Oh, that's so funny.
1032
00:55:42,010 --> 00:55:43,970
So I thought that that is great.
1033
00:55:44,070 --> 00:55:45,630
She's planning out her first.
1034
00:55:46,070 --> 00:55:51,110
You ever hear when people like, obviously when they're pregnant, the woman can't have a drink, you know, you drink it off.
1035
00:55:51,310 --> 00:55:56,930
And they're always like, I'm the minute I'm this, that I'm going to have a martini or I'm going to Oh my God.
1036
00:55:57,030 --> 00:55:57,370
So funny.
1037
00:55:57,410 --> 00:55:59,270
But she's like, I'm going to have that Ruben.
1038
00:55:59,490 --> 00:56:00,890
Yeah, I'm going to have that.
1039
00:56:01,290 --> 00:56:02,510
I'll take a Ruben too.
1040
00:56:02,730 --> 00:56:08,990
Cause she, that's one of the things I do think that she does miss that because she hasn't had any cold cuts since the beginning.
1041
00:56:08,990 --> 00:56:15,110
Like before any of the gestational diabetes stuff, there's no soft cheeses, none of that stuff.
1042
00:56:15,210 --> 00:56:17,050
So, but I'm very proud of her.
1043
00:56:17,130 --> 00:56:18,210
She's not a cooking show.
1044
00:56:18,990 --> 00:56:21,410
We could just tear into something else.
1045
00:56:21,670 --> 00:56:21,950
That's it.
1046
00:56:21,970 --> 00:56:24,250
Then we would have the kitchen Island instead of a desk there.
1047
00:56:24,510 --> 00:56:26,570
Ah, I think we just figured out our new setting.
1048
00:56:26,750 --> 00:56:31,450
Next time on the gray hair daycare podcast, it'll be eating with the boys.
1049
00:56:31,530 --> 00:56:33,050
It'll be reclam.
1050
00:56:33,550 --> 00:56:42,250
We'll just have baby Josie on the chair and watch propped up, you know, so that there was that the diet stuff I thought was interesting.
1051
00:56:42,670 --> 00:56:49,270
Now this is another, obviously with my lovely wife we've talked about in the past, her humor.
1052
00:56:49,550 --> 00:56:50,010
Okay.
1053
00:56:50,930 --> 00:56:56,130
I have to say, this interaction I had with my wife is a whole other level.
1054
00:56:56,130 --> 00:57:01,690
And my estimation, she has graduated to a different tier of comedy.
1055
00:57:01,850 --> 00:57:02,130
Okay.
1056
00:57:02,390 --> 00:57:11,050
So as we often are, she's over here, I'm editing and in YouTube, it will give you part of the studio there.
1057
00:57:11,150 --> 00:57:13,770
You just click on this one page and it gives you ideas.
1058
00:57:13,830 --> 00:57:25,910
So it basically somehow with using AI looks at what you talk about, looks at what you do and it looks at what's going on in the world and it gives you suggestions for videos that your viewers might engage with.
1059
00:57:26,010 --> 00:57:26,330
Okay.
1060
00:57:26,530 --> 00:57:32,310
So one of the ideas was nursery design hacks on a budget.
1061
00:57:32,770 --> 00:57:36,390
So like, so designing the nursery, I could do a video about that.
1062
00:57:36,810 --> 00:57:39,150
And like that, not with it.
1063
00:57:39,190 --> 00:57:44,930
She didn't stop and think she didn't say immediate response was you could do that.
1064
00:57:44,990 --> 00:57:48,870
Give your wife carte blanche to design the nursery and then don't do any of it.
1065
00:57:52,570 --> 00:57:55,710
I was like, first of all, ouch.
1066
00:57:56,330 --> 00:57:56,490
Yeah.
1067
00:57:57,250 --> 00:58:01,910
Second of all that I, I, I laughed so hard when she said that.
1068
00:58:02,150 --> 00:58:02,410
Yeah.
1069
00:58:02,770 --> 00:58:03,610
Design on a budget.
1070
00:58:03,710 --> 00:58:03,850
Yeah.
1071
00:58:04,010 --> 00:58:04,210
Yeah.
1072
00:58:04,310 --> 00:58:07,930
Give your wife carte blanche to design and then don't do it.
1073
00:58:08,010 --> 00:58:08,930
Don't do it.
1074
00:58:09,110 --> 00:58:09,910
I thought, wow.
1075
00:58:10,270 --> 00:58:12,830
But I do think, and I do think I may be in trouble.
1076
00:58:12,830 --> 00:58:13,350
Yeah.
1077
00:58:13,850 --> 00:58:16,850
Because there's always a nugget in all great comedy.
1078
00:58:17,010 --> 00:58:17,910
There is a nugget of truth.
1079
00:58:18,170 --> 00:58:18,850
Truth is in there.
1080
00:58:19,070 --> 00:58:29,650
And I have to admit with this, I've had a cold and the sinus infection, the stuff going on and I have, I have been, I'm usually fairly highly productive.
1081
00:58:30,590 --> 00:58:38,370
And then with that stuff happening, productivity has come down and then learning all the stuff with the podcast.
1082
00:58:38,430 --> 00:58:40,550
We started a podcast in the middle of it's a lot.
1083
00:58:40,630 --> 00:58:41,610
It's a lot of work.
1084
00:58:41,690 --> 00:58:44,410
I've gotten better with the amount of time that I have to spend on it.
1085
00:58:44,830 --> 00:58:48,810
But obviously I think I need to, I need to be on point.
1086
00:58:48,910 --> 00:58:50,770
I got to get in that nursery and get it.
1087
00:58:50,970 --> 00:58:52,250
I've been saying this for four weeks now.
1088
00:58:52,530 --> 00:58:53,590
Have you started the route?
1089
00:58:53,790 --> 00:58:53,890
Remember?
1090
00:58:53,930 --> 00:58:54,190
Nope.
1091
00:58:54,530 --> 00:59:00,890
I haven't even opened the box with the light fixtures in it, but I don't think it will be.
1092
00:59:00,930 --> 00:59:02,010
I'll think about that.
1093
00:59:02,230 --> 00:59:04,910
I got, I have some good ideas about what we're going to do.
1094
00:59:05,710 --> 00:59:09,390
We've ordered some coloring books, which I'm going to use for me.
1095
00:59:09,930 --> 00:59:11,390
You can color in the corner.
1096
00:59:11,630 --> 00:59:12,110
That's for me.
1097
00:59:12,330 --> 00:59:15,710
I think I have a good idea for a process of how I'm going to do the walls.
1098
00:59:15,810 --> 00:59:16,370
I'm a theme.
1099
00:59:16,630 --> 00:59:17,070
Yeah.
1100
00:59:17,190 --> 00:59:17,550
Yeah.
1101
00:59:17,550 --> 00:59:19,670
We have the theme and I think I will.
1102
00:59:19,750 --> 00:59:21,310
I'll, I'll record some of the work.
1103
00:59:21,570 --> 00:59:27,310
I can figure out how to do one of those time-lapse things where I'm running around with my hair, all messy content.
1104
00:59:27,430 --> 00:59:28,970
That's what we need is content.
1105
00:59:29,270 --> 00:59:30,730
This baby is content.
1106
00:59:30,970 --> 00:59:31,390
Yes.
1107
00:59:31,850 --> 00:59:33,430
So I'm going to get on the stick.
1108
00:59:33,610 --> 00:59:41,350
I promise, honey, I promise all to our producer to my executive producer that that room will be done.
1109
00:59:41,590 --> 00:59:54,490
I had a, I have a picture I may include at some point and it's a, it's a picture of Kelly and Watson because Watson, as big as he is, gets on her lap the other day when I came over, that's right.
1110
00:59:54,510 --> 00:59:56,170
In that chair, you don't see her at all.
1111
00:59:56,470 --> 01:00:00,950
It's just her legs and I'm like, I should put that on the podcast.
1112
01:00:01,750 --> 01:00:09,850
I'm still interested to see how these animals react when the baby comes home.
1113
01:00:09,950 --> 01:00:11,810
You know, that's the one, something that I forgot.
1114
01:00:11,930 --> 01:00:28,970
I try very hard to capture all the stuff that happens that might be fun to talk about, but we talked when I did my multiple book reviews about the dog stuff there, we have the one with the sounds and Kelly started playing the sounds the other day quietly and nobody cared.
1115
01:00:29,270 --> 01:00:31,190
Baby sounds crying, little noises.
1116
01:00:31,390 --> 01:00:42,890
Now we need to increase the volume and try it more and more, but I'm pretty sure unless little Josie sounds like a Liberty mutual commercial or it looks like a deer.
1117
01:00:43,130 --> 01:00:43,650
Yeah.
1118
01:00:43,910 --> 01:00:45,910
Have you, this might sound so crazy.
1119
01:00:46,530 --> 01:00:54,650
Have, has any of you tried to do the sound and holding that fake baby doll and walk around with it and see if the dogs do anything?
1120
01:00:54,950 --> 01:01:00,430
No, that's one of those things that I think the only good reason for having bought that was to have you try it on.
1121
01:01:00,450 --> 01:01:02,130
It was just for that has sat there.
1122
01:01:02,210 --> 01:01:04,630
The baby has not been touched the little baby doll.
1123
01:01:04,770 --> 01:01:10,130
I would walk in with this and see what the dogs even do because it's going to happen real soon.
1124
01:01:10,450 --> 01:01:19,250
We're trying to let them like leave some of the like little toys and books and stuff around so that if they approach and they're interested, they can be interested, but they can't touch it.
1125
01:01:19,590 --> 01:01:21,330
And I think they're going to do okay.
1126
01:01:21,410 --> 01:01:22,190
I'll be fine.
1127
01:01:22,190 --> 01:01:25,810
But yeah, so I need to get out of the stick on my, uh, nursery plans.
1128
01:01:26,470 --> 01:01:32,650
Uh, we only got a few weeks left, even though in my mind I keep thinking we got the cradle babies can be with you.
1129
01:01:32,690 --> 01:01:41,090
We got the cradle wise that and the changing table are going to be in our bedroom and the cradle wise thing, you know, it'll be a lot, but I should have it done.
1130
01:01:41,570 --> 01:01:45,870
And once you get involved and I know you, you're just going to be all in, it's going to be awesome.
1131
01:01:46,030 --> 01:01:46,310
Yeah.
1132
01:01:47,170 --> 01:01:52,910
It's going to be just you thought about the podcast two days later, you had $10,000 worth of stuff.
1133
01:01:53,790 --> 01:01:55,710
I'm exaggerating, but you know what I mean?
1134
01:01:56,150 --> 01:01:57,730
You're going to be the same way in the room.
1135
01:01:58,030 --> 01:01:58,430
Okay.
1136
01:01:58,590 --> 01:02:03,050
I'm in I think it's fun.
1137
01:02:03,330 --> 01:02:04,010
Yeah, it is.
1138
01:02:04,030 --> 01:02:06,230
I enjoy, I enjoy doing DIY stuff.
1139
01:02:06,350 --> 01:02:08,330
It'll be, yeah, you're a handiest dude.
1140
01:02:08,470 --> 01:02:08,630
Yeah.
1141
01:02:08,710 --> 01:02:09,410
It'll be fun.
1142
01:02:10,030 --> 01:02:13,290
Well, anyway, you have made it to the end of yet another episode.
1143
01:02:13,630 --> 01:02:14,270
They did it.
1144
01:02:14,410 --> 01:02:15,310
They, you did it.
1145
01:02:15,630 --> 01:02:16,070
Congratulations.
1146
01:02:17,630 --> 01:02:20,450
We went through many different things.
1147
01:02:20,510 --> 01:02:22,350
You talked a lot about, about a lot of different things.
1148
01:02:22,710 --> 01:02:26,830
So with that, we will leave you and we will see you next time.
1149
01:02:27,030 --> 01:02:27,470
Thanks.
1150
01:02:34,930 --> 01:02:39,210
Well folks, that's another episode of the gray hair and daycare podcast in the books.
1151
01:02:39,710 --> 01:02:42,150
Thanks very much for tuning in and spending this time with us.
1152
01:02:42,410 --> 01:02:43,350
We hope it was fun.
1153
01:02:43,830 --> 01:02:48,310
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1154
01:02:48,490 --> 01:02:51,850
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1155
01:02:52,090 --> 01:02:59,110
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1156
01:03:00,070 --> 01:03:11,950
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1157
01:03:12,250 --> 01:03:13,230
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1158
01:03:13,650 --> 01:03:15,710
And now, if you'll excuse me, I'm going to bed.








